No relationship is successful if one partner tries to put the other in a box, and make that person less than what they are. It's true of our relationship with God. Just as we shouldn't try to put Him in a box, He doesn't want us to be less than what we are. If anything, he wants you to shed some of the weights that are holding you down (even though you might think they're essential parts of you), and raise you to greater heights than you've ever imagined.