Everyone wants the fairytale romance, and that’s fine: having an ideal, searching for it, and ultimately finding it is one of life’s most rewarding experiences. But that’s just the beginning. While fairytales bring us together, building the relationship is what keeps us together. The same is true in our spiritual lives. Finding God and becoming born again isn’t the end game, it’s the beginning, the start of your relationship with God, which needs to be built every day.